"It's Not A Disorder!"

 If same sex attraction (homosexuality, bisexuality) and transgenderism (aka gender identity disorder) aren't disorders, but just misunderstood orientations why, across the world, are such people in said groups treated like they have a disorder? 

Why in the US are there LGBT+ "safe places" or center? Why is the Pride flag seen as some innocent do-good symbol despite its history while the American flag and Back the Blue flag are seen in a dark light? Why are there a number of tv shows and series trying to make same sex attraction "like totally normal", and the the LGBT+ character is met with tension, it's shown that they can't properly cope with it therefore they move to suicidal acts or self-harm? Let's look other minorities: blacks, Asians, Hispanics and Native American.

Besides the whole "black owned businesses" featured on Yelp and "representation", blacks tend to have decent coping skills despite Jim Crow laws and its effects. When they were barred from obtaining a basic education they made their own school and doubled their literacy rate in a relatively short time span, granted many issues still prevail in the black demographic.

Even in places where it's socially "progressive" like the Nordic countries rates of LGBT+ suicide is still high to the straight population. 

Let's face it: same sex attraction is a disorder. Same thing with transgenderism. You don't eat a rotting animal carcass like a vulture would do, do you? No. If you do you probably have a disorder such as when people crave and eat inanimate objects. Well, if you're a women who's sexually attracted to women you're going against what your biological reality is made for. If you're a guy who things he's a women then you're not acknowledging your biological reality. Funny enough, if the male and female brains are identical then the transgender advocates say that we have to look deeper because neurologically transgender females have systems similar to biological females. Wait, I thought there were no big differences between males and females?