Wednesday, April 29, 2015

There should be no shame.

At least you admit to that, dear lovely women.

What I got from this video:

1. If you don't feel shame, then that's okay. It's others who are trying to make you feel shame.
2. Slut is a dirty derogatory word.
3. Numbers really don't count.
4. As long as the partner doesn't have STDs and practiced "safe sex," then it's totally okay if he slept with the entire cheerleading squad.
5. You make me feel bad about my vagina welcoming X number of dicks. Stop it.
6. Honesty is what counts. (Okay, this one makes the most sense.)
7. Everyone has a past. (How about the virgins? That's practically a tabula rasa.)

 Man, that's some awesome standards. It's so low that a teacup kitten could clear it without any scratches.

Now it's the guys turn of their definition of "slut" and views on sex.

What I got from this video:

1. Guy at 0:06 says that a slut is someone who expresses disapproval of ones sexual promiscuity. Yea, that totally makes sense.
2. Ricky Martin look alike really doesn't like that word; Ricky Martin look-alike admires Europeans for their lax views on sex. Of course.
3. According to Rickey Martin, asking how many sex partners one has is considered a juvenile question. How very mature, Ricky.
4. Ricky Martin look alike says it's all about being STD free and how he feels about you ... Right now. Tomorrow? NO. Right now.
5. Ricky Martin look alike thinks women are more shamed due to "old mentality, old traditional gender roles where women are subservient."
6. Apparently society is scared of women having power, hence society shaming women for their sexual adventures/trysts.
7. I don't know any women who naturally wants to "express" sexual promiscuity and "just for fun" (unless "just for fun" means horny, then yes, women do get horny - just like men). Video game boy at 3:22 is filled with wisdom.
8. Apparently we are all animals. Rawr!
9. Shaming is limiting the expression of women, that is their personal freedom. It is also harmful psychologically to shame.
10. 4:48 Ricky Martin can't understand why people would care if their partner slept with 100 people; it's like not supporting gay pseudo-marriage - what does it matter to you?! The complexity!
11. Video game boy think men & women should be able to express their sexuality. He equates sexuality & promiscuity with interests, passions and hobbies as things that should be freely and unabashedly practiced, in anyway as they see fit, as long as it doesn't harm anyone without fear of judgement and shaming for being who they are.

So in other words, sleeping around shouldn't have a social stigma. Because "progress" and being non-judgmental. If a partner, or both, have slept around "Who cares? Their bodily choices don't define them!" Well, unless it's tattoos then that bodily choice is seen as cool and confident.

If you've watched the video, what did you get from it? Thoughts? Is my list missing anything?

NOTE: Video uploader, Jaclyn Glenn is an "open" atheist. The men who responded, their personal youtube pages are dedicated to "geek" stuff, high fashion, dating advice, "man talk" (by Ricky Martin look alike) and "life." Go figure.

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